Your husband cheated on you, right? But, you decided to give your marriage another chance. But you are still afraid, “What if he cheats on me again?” This thinking is bothering you.
Naturally, you are struggling to believe him again. And it’s crucial for you to know if he is faithful to or will cheat on you again.
If you have given a second chance to your marriage after your husband’s infidelity, then you should be more mindful of any negative signs in your husband’s behaviour.
Look at the Signs He Might Cheat Again
He Blames Others
If your husband doesn’t take responsibility for his affair and blames others for it, maybe he will cheat again. Because he doesn’t consider it as his own mistake. If he won’t accept it, how will he mend his way?
He will keep blaming the other woman or you for the affair. If he believes that it’s yours, then you need to be worried. Because in the future, when he gets any excuse, he will get involved with another woman again.
He Justifies His Cheating
Does your husband justify his cheating with different reasons? If yes, then it shows he is not guilty of his act. People only justify things when they consider it’s not that bad, like any unhealthy habit.
If he believes he has a reason for doing infidelity, then he can do it again when things are tough for him. To build a healthy relationship again, it’s necessary that you discuss his affair. So when you have the conversation, notice if he justifies his affair, if he does so, you need to be alert.
He Avoids You
If your husband wants to move on from the affair and asks for a second chance from you and promises that he will work to make the relationship better, that’s great.
But even after getting the second chance, he is avoiding you. He is not making any effort to improve his relationship with you. Then maybe it’s a sign that he is not truly committed and can cheat again.
He Shows Interest in Other Women
If your husband shows more interest in other women compared to you, then you can take it as a silent warning. Some men love to flirt. But if he constantly keeps flirting with other women, then it’s not a good sign.
Tell him that you don’t like his behaviour. If he doesn’t stop after that, then he may not have any respect for you. And most importantly he doesn’t learn anything from his past mistakes. Probably he will repeat it.
He Still Talks With Her
Your husband claims that his relationship with his girlfriend is over. But he still talks to her, maybe he still loves her. Before giving him another chance, he needs to break his relationship with her.
If they continue talking, he will betray you again because they have a soft spot for each other. And if your husband refuses to break up with his girlfriend, he is not fully committed to you.
How to Prevent Your Husband From Cheating
By being involved with another woman, your husband already breaks your heart. You don’t want to let it happen again. But you are clueless how can you prevent him from cheating?
To stop him from infidelity, first know the factors that can influence him to cheat. But before doing anything remember, cheating is his choice. If he is a habitual cheater, he will cheat anyway.
But still, if you address the factors that create a gap between them and motivate him to cheat, perhaps he won’t do it again.
Let’s look at the things you can do to prevent your husband from cheating:
Show Willingness to Intimate
The most crucial step to prevent infidelity in your marriage is to show willingness to be intimate. It will show your husband your interest in him.
And if you try to satisfy your husband sexually, he will start to feel attracted to you again. Instead of finding his interest in other women, he would come back to you. You will be surprised how working on your sexual relationship will improve your relationship with your husband.
Look Presentable
Men appreciate beauty and they love to see their wives always presentable. So try to always look beautiful and presentable in front of your husband.
One common mistake women make is they stop paying attention to their appearance after marriage. No matter how busy you become with your responsibilities, always look presentable for your husband. Because men hate to see their women untidy. If you don’t look clean and nice, he will lose interest.
Appreciate Him
After getting married, couples forget to appreciate each other and start to take each other for granted. Not only men but also women do the same thing. They get a sense of security after marriage. But remember anyone can leave their relationship if they don’t feel appreciated enough.
Always appreciate your husband for the things he does for you. Never fail to tell how important he and his presence are for you. This will show your husband that you value him and help you to build a positive relationship with him.
Let Him Have His Own Time
Many men cheat because they feel trapped in the relationship. They feel that their marriage has ended all their freedom. Their life is regulated by their wives. And to get some sense of relief they got involved in infidelity.
You don’t do this. Let your husband have some time for himself without you. Let him spend time with his mates or anything he loves doing. He shouldn’t feel that you are trying to monopolise his time. If you let him spend some time for himself, you will notice he will start to spend more time with you.
Spend Quality Time
Prioritise spending quality time with him. After a few years of marriage, couples don’t prioritise spending quality time together. It creates distance between them.
To make your relationship good with him, plan date nights, arrange surprise dinners, and go on holiday. At least once a week spend some time alone with him, this will make your husband more interested in you and increase his love for you.
